Heh. I think, that that sounded just a tad too... Um... Insightful? From what you've wrote, I've assumed, that you were in situations that you alone can resolve. But to hint at the question you've asked? Well... Maybe a little bit of both.

No, not me.

In fact, there have been a hundred times where if I’d only had some kind of help, insight, even just another perspective, then maybe…

Maybe things would have turned out better for others.